Rabu, 20 April 2011

What is the emancipation of women?


 Many women who fight for the emancipation of women, is it wrong?
In my opinion, it's certainly not wrong, but do not let it exploit women. Women are gentle creatures, if they're just being a housewife actually it's just been very heavy, it is too hard to become a good wife and mother who are responsible to their children.
 
In my opinion, the emancipation of women was to obtain his rights as a woman who at admit, in value, and protected. The issue of gender equality in fact needs to be understood again. Women may be working but if he is married, lest she abandoned her husband and children. Because now many cases of women who think that career is more important that makes her  husband and son be the second. Surely she did not understand very well her position in family. If at any time his career is more brilliant than her husband, slowly, like leading her family. In Islam, if the husband salary is only one million dollars and wife of ten million dollars, it is still blessing and become a living is a one million rupiah. In this woman career case, her family fall apart like cheating husbands, cheating wives, and children into deviant behavior. 
 Before work, she must know what kind of place she worked and as what he worked. Do not work in places that are not good. Many workplaces that exploit women, both physically and power, from offices and ordinary workplaces. Women physically exploited in a way that set the dress code. Many workplaces are set to use a mini dress and a beautiful woman to entice consumers. In terms of power, a lot of  workplace who told their employees to work overtime and are forced constantly until late at night. 
In the case of women workers, in fact is the most sad. They are sent as women workers should be women who are very competent in their fields, can be say the experts so that they can protect themselves. But now, especially women who work abroad as women workers are the ones who are not experts who are capital only reckless. So now many such cases of torture, abuse, even rape. The government can not prevent it? The most pain experienced by these women workers are traumatized so that not a few who, after returning from abroad to be crazy. Similar to the women who pressed it requires money, rogue elements who are not responsible even plunge them into prostitutes. Actually, no woman who wants to be like that. Is it not exploitation form?  

In conclusion, the woman must be smart to put the position and existence if she wanted to work. The most important is do not until she abandoned her  family. Do not misinterpret the emancipation of women, gender equality issues do not be eaten. Basically do women and men are different and will never be the same. So many are calling for gender equality which they said was for the sake of fairness between women and men. But in my opinion, based on Islam, the position of women will always be under the man as her husband, Leaders, and will never change. However, this does not mean wife is "owned" her husband completely. This woman should be kept, loved, for  cared and not to be bought, abused, or exploited !
 
posted by Yunita Fibriani

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